I exhibited at a wedding fair the other day: brides and grooms and brides and friends everywhere! I asked a lot of brides and couples questions about where and when they’d be getting married, loving the excited faces and new romantic energy: how exciting!
I can’t really judge too harshly. I was married before because I thought it was the thing to do at the time. Now though, I AM married to the dreamiest dreamboat ever. And if I have one piece of advice to give, it’s that you should only marry the one who makes the butterflies in your tummy go crazy. Only marry the one who thinks you can do anything. Only marry the one who will support your dreams while pursuing his or her own. Marry the one who is your best friend, who makes you laugh every day, who tells you he (or she) loves you often and gives the best hugs. Because life is tough, but being with your person shouldn’t be. And when you find this dreamboat, remind yourself every day how special and important it is that you found one another, because it’s easy to forget. The amazing becomes commonplace all too quickly, and we take it for granted.